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  • Noob Love

    Noob Love

    by Subin (Singapore)

    Yo!

    I usually think about you, our relationship but then get involved in some other stuff and forget to tell you, probably while writing this down I will recollect them.

    You remember our first date, you have always talked about it?

    When I first saw you that day, I was like …I have dressed up so much for today but why is she so casual (maybe not interested in me?). Then we started walking from the MRT station to a restaurant and the whole walk with each step I was questioning myself… this girl is not interested in me?

    Somehow we reached the restaurant, and I think maybe that meal started the thing that we have now–trying to find humour in childish things and making fun of each other. But you know what my favourite moment was? You lying down on my hands in the grass.

    It’s been more than a year now with you, we have come from a point where I used to say the same thing at least 3 times before there was even a chance for you to get it. Sometimes we gave up as well (haha) and moved to the next conversation. I love to be able to even talk on the phone and understand each other.

    I love the way you look at me and then smile at me, I don’t know how you can do that always be it after work or in the morning or in the evening but that can lift me up from whatever mood I’m in.

    I have always wondered how you can find me cute, I have never seen that in myself, but maybe that’s the beauty in you of seeing things differently.

    I like to try new things in life, but I can definitely say you do that more than me, in the past 1 year we have done so many things for the first time like a first trip, making out in a public garden in Singapore, so many new restaurants, first Cambodia, first high (for you), and of course there are many more and there will be many more.

    This last year has been truly amazing with you, I can’t tell you how lucky I have been to share that with you.

    I will always be there for you, no matter what happens, through the happy and sad days of your life.

    Love you!

     

  • Once My Everything…

    Once My Everything…

    by Jr (NY)

    I wonder
    Do you miss me?
    I wonder
    Do you still think of me?
    I wonder
    What now? Give up? Fight? Or just let you go.

    You permeate my thoughts, desires, and wildest of dreams.
    Why did I leave? I ask myself the same.
    But at times, I knew the reasons.
    I knew we were not meant to be.
    I knew, I was no longer your everything

    You promised me you’d marry me some day?
    Remember?
    You promised me a house in the country.
    Remember?
    You promised to always protect me, keep me warm, and keep me safe.

    Careful what you wish for. I say that today.
    For today my wish of you gone has come and gone.
    I wished you away. And away now you are gone.
    Gone away forever, only for another heart to take my place.

    I want you happy. That’s all I’ve ever wanted. That’s all I’ve ever said.
    So, tonight, as I write this, I admit my mistake, the error of my ways.
    A cross that I will bear forever. For you were kind, gentle, and pure with my heart.
    I love you today, tomorrow and forever.
    Only to suffer and crumble upon my frail, what once was, frail …..eternal heart.

    For two days, tormented and afraid.
    Afraid of what will be….what will be of my heart….my memories…and mostly…love for you.
    My desire to think of you yet six months later still feels like it was the first day you kissed me.
    How I long for that feeling once again.

    I had promised to myself never to bother you again.
    Never to cause you pain ever again.
    And so as I finish my love letter, I am only forced to destroy it.
    I sacrificed my eternal love for you, so you could be free.
    Free from the very self you have always wanted to destroy.
    The very self you have tried to.

     

  • Love Letters for Her

    Love Letters for Her

    So you’re thinking about writing a love letter to your girlfriend, wife, daughter and not sure where to begin.

    Post your own love letterYou can’t stop thinking about her. You think about how she smiles when you walk in a room. How she laughs at your jokes. She is your perfect fit. You know she’s unique, beautiful and deserves only the best expressions of your affection. And you want to present her with the love letter that tells her how and why she is so special to you.

    For girlfriends and wives, the right letter can take her on a romantic getaway,  a trip down romance lane without ever leaving the house.

    For daughters and other important women in your life, a love letter can show her the true depths of your devotion.

    But where to start? Right here.

    These are crafted poems and love letters, written by others. What they all have in common is that they’re unquestionable declarations of love. Choose one, get inspired by several, then write your own.

     

  • Love Letters for Him { Boyfriend & Husband }

    Love Letters for Him { Boyfriend & Husband }

    So you’re thinking about writing a love letter for your boyfriend, but where to start?

    How do I love thee? Let me count the ways…. Maybe not! Since men can be tough—we’re here to inspire you with what others have written and posted on the site. Use them to guide you through your own love letter that fits how you feel about your guy.

    Will he love your mushy mash notes or is a cute poem all you need to let him know how you feel? We all want to let our other half know that we care. We strive to find the balance in how we express the love we have built together. Cruise around the page, find the letter for you that holds the keys to the perfect vehicle of love and drive off into the sunset together. Remember, customize any of these letters as you see fit and tailor them to your guy!

  • My Love for You!

    My Love for You!

    by DM from UK

    Bekah,

    I think your amazing. You are one of the nicest most caring sweet most genuine girls I have ever met in my life.

    You have the biggest heart and it must be made of pure gold because you’re an absolute darling. Your kindness and your sense of humor make me want to do my best by you, as you always do by me.

    You are the image of pure perfection…Your amazing hair is so stand out, your eyes are so inviting, and so is your amazing smile.

    I love your amazing accent and I feel giddy every time you talk to me.

    You deserve the world and I’d move heaven and earth to be with you.

    You deserve your happiness and if I could provide that and look after you then I would.

    I love you Bekah. You are like my angel and I hope and pray that one day you and me will be together.

    Just keep doing what your doing Bekah and I’m sure an amazing person, who you deserve, will fall in love with you.

    The world would be a better place if we had more people like you in it and you really deserve your happiness.

    From your friend who loves you.

    Dave xoxoxo

     

  • My Goodbye Love Letter

    My Goodbye Love Letter

    by Amy (Toronto)

    Dear Sandy,

    I never thought our story would be over, but it is. We’ve said goodbye. I thought and hoped we would last forever. I didn’t see this as our future.

    I still believe we are soul mates. Losing you feels like losing a part of me. I will always love you, miss you, want you.

    I am in so much pain right now that I actually dream of a time in the future when missing you won’t hurt so much. I cherish our good memories and hope those always stay on my mind. Time and distance will help heal this wound.

    Our breakup makes me sad because of all that you are. And who we became as a couple.

    There are aspects of our time together that I will continue to celebrate. You taught me a lot. Your compassion for animals was one of the things that I loved about you. The first time I saw you holding a baby, the gentle way you spoke, the concern for their comfort—is the moment I knew I loved you.

    How those early days went from awesome to nightmare, I don’t know. I only know that we hurt each other in the end.

    I won’t blame either one of us for doing things that ultimately destroyed us.

    Although I will focus on the positive, it’s the mistakes we made along the way, that are the lessons that sting the most. I struggle with wondering whether the bad memories will fade and allow me to remember the good.

    When I decided to move on, I was afraid. It meant I was losing us and therefore losing you. Will I find someone as wonderful as you? I hope so.

    I imagine that they’ll come into the relationship with scars just like me. We will probably compare battle stories. Since I am stronger from my time with you, I will hope that the next person is as well.

    I do want you to know that you are a great person. We weren’t right, but that doesn’t mean you’re not right for someone else.

    Again, I wish this weren’t the case, but I wanted to write you and tell you that above all else—I love you.

    Just writing this has helped me come closer to a place where I admire our time together. A patch of rocky road makes us appreciate the smooth miles ahead.

    Love always,
    Amy

     

  • Love Letter to Jenny

    Love Letter to Jenny

    by Gregory (Santa Monica)

    My sweet Jenny,

    I used to write these all the time – guess it’s been awhile. Sorry about that. Don’t think that I’m not still in love with you. Just busy I guess. But let me slow my life down a moment and tell you how much you mean to me.

    The little things you do for me, for us, each day never ceases to amaze me. Where do you find the time to make my lunch? Thank you for that. I love the little notes you put inside. I always reach in and wonder if today will be the day you didn’t put one in – but nope, they are always there. Just like you. There for me. I am here for you too. Even if I seem caught up in work, trust me, you’re the first thing on my mind when I wake up and the last on my mind when I go to sleep.

     

  • Love Letter to Mi Amor

    Love Letter to Mi Amor

    by E.O (El Mirage, AZ)

    To mi amor,

    “I can’t believe my future girlfriend had a Justin Bieber phase.” That to me is still one of the cutest and funniest things you’ve ever said.  Yes, I did have a Justin Bieber phase.

    It started when I was 8 and it ended when I was 13.  Sad, I know.  But what I find so cute and so endearing is that you considered me as someone you wanted to be with in the future. To you,  it probably was simple flirting, but my heart dropped down to my ass when you said that because I already had the biggest crush on you.

    I remember exactly what I was doing that day; I was babysitting my tíos kids and I was feeding the baby. He was having some mango Gerber or something like that. Anyway, when I saw your DM I gasped a bit loudly and scared the baby and had to comfort him afterwards. I also remember telling my best friend what you had said and we were both losing it!

    I was trying to act so cool around you, I didn’t want you to think I was a loser, but I was a mess inside. A very cute and nice girl who I had developed a crush on, called me her future girlfriend.  How was I supposed to stay calm?

    I was so happy.

    My crush on you started when you would check up on me whenever I was upset.  You were the only person who would ask me if I was okay and you did it more than once. You genuinely cared.

    I wanted to talk to you ever since then but you kind of intimidated me. I knew you were nice obviously, but I was scared that you wouldn’t feel the same way.  So instead I would try to like your tweets as much as I could without making it obvious that I liked you or without being totally annoying. And then one night I was looking everywhere for as many links I could find for Bangbangcon so I could watch and suddenly you DM’ed me and offered to let me use your account. Out of nowhere. I was so shocked.

    I already liked you so I got really happy because the thought of you liking me crossed my mind, but then my brain started messing with me and i was sure i was making things upI, that you were only being nice.

    That’s why I was hesitant on accepting it.  I didn’t want to over think things or make anything up in my head.  And I brought it up to my best friend again, how you offered what you did, and that you had said my spot was safe if i decided to use it, and she told me you liked me.

    At first I was confused so I told her to shut up, but then she told me what person would let someone use their personal account to watch something like that without wanting anything in return. I told her that you were only being nice, that you were always so nice to me.

    Then she brought up all the times you would check up on me and that you had said you wanted your “fave moot” to enjoy the show. At that point I was ready to shut her down but she said she would beat my ass so I just let it go, but I was thinking about it a lot.

    I kept thinking about it while watching the live show and even after. I wanted to keep talking to you then but I was scared that I was being weird.

    So I didn’t until one day I said, f*ck it, and decided to send you messages. And then you started sending them too. Even though they were just tweets at first, I was happy. I’m not going to lie though, I was always a bit sad when you wouldn’t reply.

    I wanted to send you more messages but I didn’t want to be annoying so I would wait for you to reply.

    And the rest, just happened. Now you’re my girlfriend.

    You have no idea how happy you’ve made me.

    I know that it hasn’t been long but I feel so much for you. You’re nice, kind, sweet, understanding, pretty, gorgeous, beautiful. You’re everything I’ve ever wanted in someone.

    You make me feel things that I’ve never felt before. Really, I am just so glad I met you.

    I’m so glad we started talking. I am so grateful for you.

    I love talking to you all day, you make me laugh and smile. You’re my precious baby.

    I can’t wait to meet you and kiss you and hold you.

    You are on my mind all day. I am so happy you’re mine on this day. You’re the best girlfriend in the world. Let’s spend countless national girlfriend days together! My feelings are much deeper than just liking you.

    You are my everything and more. Mi amor.

    yours truly,
    Ericka

     

  • Love Letter to Mohan

    Love Letter to Mohan

    by Anna

    2019 was eventful for a myriad of reasons – of which one of them was because our paths crossed in South-Eastern Australia.

    My heart fluttered when I saw you for the first time in Sunshine Coast. You were never one who was confident about the way you looked but at that moment, I knew you could stand in a room filled with attractive young men and my eyes would only be for you.

    While I had romantic feelings for you, never mind the 11-year age gap, you felt we could never be anything more. It took time for me to acknowledge that we can never be together and I moved on.

    It is still difficult to come to terms with the fact that you will be turning 35 and soon, find someone whom you can settle down with, but I am happy for you regardless. You deserve nothing but joy and success for your kind and forgiving heart.

    I am back in my home country now for my vacation, but this heart misses you. It has been missing you for months. It has been yearning to see you, but distance just never gave me the opportunity to do so.

    You will never see this, but you are the best thing that happened to me. I hope the woman who is destined to be your significant other will always protect you and keep you happy because you deserve nothing less.

    I thank God for having met you because you took me out of my miseries.

    I was dwelling in my past and only moved on when I met you in person and learnt about your own battles. It was an ordeal to see how her departure from your life still troubled you to this day and wished your personal life ended as a fairy tale – just the way you wanted it to be.

    Nevertheless, I hope you have gotten back up on your feet and toiling hard at work and serving your patients with a wide smile.

    Your sisters are fortunate to have you as their brother, your mother is fortunate to have you as her son, and your ex-girlfriend? She was fortunate to have spent all those years with a man who would have never wished harm upon anyone.

    Thank you for being there for me 24/7, for being my confidant, and my constant. Keep smiling, you beautiful thing.

     

  • Love Letter to My Mimi

    Love Letter to My Mimi

    by Your Oli

    Heya Mimi,

    My love. My heart. My Soul. My Chicken Nugget. I know you said not to worry, but obviously, I do, because I care about you more than anything, to be honest.

    Ever since that first time we reconnected, all I ever wanted to do was make you happier and I’m so grateful that you’re giving me that chance. You deserve the world and more.

    When you originally told me that you like had feelings for me, I was so effing happy because I didn’t want to ruin being able to talk to you. When I realised I was falling for you, I uh actually wasn’t surprised at all, as a human we’re attracted to talent and beauty and brains and personality and you just have it all and more.

    I’ll never understand what I did to deserve this chance but I won’t ruin it.

    I plan on marrying you baby-girl <3 But I mean, we’re rushing ahead.

    I want to start, with the first kiss. The first dance. The first meal made together. The first trip we go on. The first “in real life” date we go to. The first time I hold you in my arms. The first time I pick you up. The first time I touch you.

    Like my head, this looks like a mess. It’s not in order, but I’m getting off-topic.

    You do this to me. I’m captivated by your brilliance and beauty in all aspects.

    From the first time I laid my eyes on you…that smile, that amazing warm smile. I haven’t felt this way about anyone before, never. The connection we have is just…incomparable and the way you make me feel is like well, the luckiest man in the world.

    I can never EVER, fully explain how much you mean to me, but I’m gonna try my darn hardest to show you my little butterfly.

    I don’t care how long it takes or where it takes place as long as you’re by my side.

    Life excites me again, thanks to you—like all the good things in life that we can experience together, all the little things and all the big things. Everything….As long as I’m with YOU.

    Yours, forever and always,

    Your Oli <3